Okcupid is garbage, don't waste your time.
There's a LOT of reasons to hate this site!
The staff and owners of Okcupid do not care about their site at all. They especially don't care who frequents it and what they do while they're on it. Trolls rampage through the forums attacking anything that moves, and some of these people are actually paying members! So if you pay for extra features, the staff overlooks any problems you cause? If you have a question, comment, or concern about the site, you're instantly attacked by a stampede of 4chan trolls who rip you apart. They insult, harass, and flame anyone who posts in the forums, and the staff just lets them do it without a word. They don't do ANYTHING about it.
Half of the users on that site are just there to troll, screw around, talk to friends, and take the tests, and are not interested in dating anyone. So their user numbers are a total lie, they're not there looking for a significant other, just to screw around on a web site.
Also, most of the women who actually are looking for someone on that site have standards that are way too high and judge very harshly, compared to what little they bring to the table. I see tons of girls on this site who are obviously heavy drinkers or alcoholics, overweight or obese but use camera angles to hide it, druggies, baby mommas who are legal now, or girls who just have more baggage than a 747. The pretty ones are always immature and just looking for hookups, or think they want something serious but aren't ready for it.
Most of the ones who seem okay who say they want something serious, do everything that directly conflicts what what they say they want. Only messaging guys who look like models, guys on motorcycles, guys with expensive cars, guys with alcohol in all their pictures, and guys who can "impress" them with money, charm, and material possessions. They don't want to sit down and talk with a guy who's serious about it, and find a connection. All they do is waste your time and give you the false impression that they want something serious, but they're clearly not ready for it.
CAN SOMEONE PLEASE make a free site that boots all those people out, and only allows people in who are actually READY for something MEANINGFUL. In short, Okcupid is the complete opposite of that and is a complete waste of anyone's time who is looking for something meaningful, and does nothing but give you false hope in idiots who have no idea what they want.